Jackie Anderson
Oh, Libby and family: the hole in the world is so much bigger than the size of the man. Bob had such a sweet way of making me feel like family. I will always, easily conjur first his roguish grin and his devilish sense of humor when I think of him. His True legacy in my life is the man he (and you) raised Matt to be. Many times, Matt knew what being a dependable, constant friend to me looked like because Bob set the example. May your shock be the cocoon it's meant to be. May you be buffered and supported. May you lean in to the strange defense mechanisms that show up in these times unexpectedly: the bizarre laughter; the fierce rage; the relief; the peace; the forgetfulness... all of these are normal complex protective systems that are part of our survival. Above all, May you have moments of feeling the love that surrounds you now. Always, Jackie Anderson and family

